He will never agree to have sex with you before marriage. Nor will he engage in mixed-sex social gatherings or online events. Moreover, a good catch will never drink alcohol or attend events where people are doing so. He will often participate in Ramadan and dress modestly. These are just a sample of things to look out for to indicate whether the guy you have met is a genuinely good choice for a husband.
Join Now for Free! Meet single Arab men and American women on ArabLounge. Only available for older mature compassionate men interested in marriage. All rights reserved. I was not born muslim or live a muslim lifestyle , I was not exposed to islam until I met him. He is expecting too much from me and not seeing the sacrifices that I would need to take to convert to muslim.
I hope I would be able to get some advice on this matter. I would love to know how other couple that have gone through the same thing overcome it. Stay away get American man this guy will take your good energy and he sounds selfish. Not good at all. Hi, I am a Muslim woman. A revert, you have to accept Islam of your own free will. My husband never forced anything on me or our daughter or sons. He led by example of being a good person who happened to be Muslim.
This is really interesting as I went through the same thing in Malaysia with a guy. My culture was ok until things got more serious then he wanted me to change. It was never going to work. If you don't feel comfortable with the things he is asking now, he's not going to change and back off. You should have the same expectations for him as you would of someone from your own culture. It's one thing to have give and take in a relationship but it's another when your partner is asking you to fundamentally change and you're not comfortable with it.
What you wrote makes me uncomfortable and if I were your sister or friend I would say you need to seriously reconsider your relationship. I recently married my Lebanese boyfriend of five years we knew each other for seven years in total. I think it is not fair to generalize I have met Arab men who fit the stereotypes, and others who definitely do not. I walked into a Lebanese fast-food restaurant here in Canada seven years ago and was sideswiped by a case of love at first sight did not believe in it before; neither did he with the man on the other side of the counter, as was he So it was a difficult marriage I have met her I like her, but I can see where they might have rubbed each other the wrong way at times.
They moved to Canada, and three years later divorced when their son was 4. He was alone for over 25 years So he had given up. After we had that case of love at first sight, nothing happened for two years out of fear, among other things, but we could not deny something was there.
We became a couple, and took it slow And I could see he was a really good man in a bad situation. He could not take me out to dinner, but he could cook for me at home And he slowly recognized that in his 50s, he finally did deserve his own life Lebanese men are often very devoted to their families, which is a good thing, but as I pointed out, it should work both ways, and family should understand that he is in debt and not doing well, and perhaps should be the one helping him He is Moslem and I am Christian, but it turned out that we had a similar way of looking at the world, shared the same values, etc.
I am very strong and independent, but recognize his need to be "the man", and in turn he listens to my advice, and does not make me feel weak Five years later, after lots of ups and downs, he has said goodbye to his debt and is feeling good So, with everyone's blessing my parents love him too, although they were initially worried, more about his debt than his religion or culture. We have had people call him a terrorist not so much in Canada, but when we have gone on vacation in the USA a couple of times , and make assumptions about him wanting to convert me he was glad that I believed in God, and had good values He is very attentive and considers me his queen, and I, in turn, treat him like a king.
And he has turned out to be a very loving, affectionate, intelligent, funny man who cares about family and has strong values Which is what men in general should be A touching story really and God bless you for making someone else's life your husband and his kids happy and organized. I hope you're happy as well, which I think you are. Good and bad people exist everywhere and in every culture, its people like you who makes the difference in life.
Keep it up. Levant men in gulf countries, are the best emotional investments you can make. They are loyal, treat you like a queen, hold doors for you, cook for you, help with dishes, and all of them sing well.
They are less uptight than gulf arabs, but believe in providing for the woman. I did not quite believe in love till I met one of their kind. The downside is, they tend to not marry outside their tribal clan, but this one guy fought the world and being disowned by his family to be with me, and now our families get along incredibly well.
Suffocation is another concept whereby this gets real old, real fast. Get it? Virginity is overrated. I only knew something like seven proud virgins in my life.
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