Something much more powerful and efficient. The slightest change in the tone of voice or the way the eyebrows arch could carry more information in a second than several sentences in a minute. Unfortunately, they often also expect us men to have same mutant-level sensitivity bordering on telepathy.
But what if we try developing our own sensitivity? Although a lot of men are not very comfortable with the idea of adopting this female trait because it might lessen their masculinity, being a little sensitive but still logical and rational could lead to our great advantage over those testosterone-pumped chest-thumping cavemen in winning our mate.
As for the ladies, we would really appreciate if once in a while you try to talk in our normal language so we can take a break from reading your minds with ever word you say, considering that when we are stressed or tired or hung over, our senses are dulled. When a woman shares a problem, the man instinctively puts on his Handyman cap and tries to offer solutions.
Because what she wants is simply to have someone to whom she can pour out her pain and frustrations. A familiar scene: A woman pours out to a friend about her abusive man and their volatile relationship, and as the friend silently absorbs her pain, she regains the strength to continue living her shitty life. Fortunately, not all women are like that. I guess most women, when they pour out their heartaches, simply shed the bad stuff so they can breathe in the good, renewing their strength not only to face the problem but perhaps even to solve it.
Error: Please make sure the Twitter account is public. Inner Minds. By jong atmosfera 5 Comments. Categories: Logical Attempts Tags: human nature , peculiarities of women. While men complain about women being irrational, women get mad at men for being insensitive. In fact, when I first started, I was amazed at how many more words the male guests and presenters felt justified to slot in. But the fact is that women are simply catching up to the level of public self-expression with which men are so comfortable.
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